We’re continually instructed to open our hearts to old friends who are distressed, lonely, or ill. But could you shut up about yourself once in a while? Why, as the golden years turn to gray, must you be ego-yapping all the time? We are elders of the tribe now. Our job is to support others, work behind the scenes to fix things, like the planet, society, our neighborhood. We are meant now to be inconspicuous caregivers, imparting wisdom and life skills. It’s not about us an